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tsblades2015
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Conundrum: Can two Entrepreneurs have a successful relationship!

Have you ever dated, currently dating or in a committed relationship with an entrepreneur like yourself who's not in the same line of work you're in?

Could the relationship be easier if one person had a 9 to 5?

What are your thoughts on managing the lifestyle of a entrepreneur, because our typical day does not end at 5pm! 

  • ​It can definitely work, but it takes a special dynamic.

    ​The best part of dating another entrepreneur is the mutual empathy—you never have to explain why you’re taking a call at 8 PM or working weekends. They just get it.

    ​A partner with a 9-to-5 brings great stability, but they have to be OK with a schedule that doesn't shut off at 5:00 PM.

    ​For me, making it work boils down to two things:

    • A real off-switch: When you’re together, put the phone down and actually be present.
    • Zero competition: Support each other’s hustle instead of arguing over who works harder or has less free time.

    ​Two entrepreneurs can thrive together, but you have to protect your relationship with the same discipline you use to run your business.

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  • ​It can definitely work, but it takes a special dynamic.

    ​The best part of dating another entrepreneur is the mutual empathy—you never have to explain why you’re taking a call at 8 PM or working weekends. They just get it.

    ​A partner with a 9-to-5 brings great stability, but they have to be OK with a schedule that doesn't shut off at 5:00 PM.

    ​For me, making it work boils down to two things:

    • A real off-switch: When you’re together, put the phone down and actually be present.
    • Zero competition: Support each other’s hustle instead of arguing over who works harder or has less free time.

    ​Two entrepreneurs can thrive together, but you have to protect your relationship with the same discipline you use to run your business.

    • tsblades2015's avatar
      tsblades2015
      Contributor 3

      It can get challenging at times, especially if you partner cares, but doesn't have a day of rest set up for personal time in their schedule. 

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    dmkol33
    Contributor 2

    There are pros and cons to both situations. Another entrepreneur may relate to the unpredictability of running a business, while someone with a more regular schedule can sometimes bring a sense of balance.

  • Entrepreneurs schedule time for customers and meetings, so they should also schedule protected time for their relationship. When schedules are hectic, planned mini dates can be more realistic than waiting for the perfect free day. A short lunch or coffee together still creates connection.

  • My husband and I work together. I own a business, and we run a business together, and most days I want to take him to the train station (iykyk). That being said, I do believe it can teach you a lot about communication and show you how committed you are to your relationship and your business. You can learn a lot, but it is not for the faint of heart.