What boundaries do you create with family and business?
Finding a healthy balance is challenging what are your non negotiables with family and business?
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This is something I’ve had to get better at, especially being a one man business.
For me, one of the biggest non negotiables is that I cannot do custom work for next to nothing just because someone is family, a friend, or someone I know personally. I still have material costs, consumables, tools, time, wear and tear on equipment, and the regular business expenses that do not go away just because the person knows me.
I am always willing to help where I can, but there is a difference between helping someone and undervaluing the work. If someone wants something made for almost nothing, there is usually no realistic way for me to make that work without taking a loss or putting myself in a bad position.
One thing I do offer instead is the chance to come hang out in the shop and learn how to do it. If they are genuinely interested, I can walk them through the process, teach as we go, and help them understand what actually goes into the work. That way I am still helping, but I am not giving away the business.
That has also helped me get more comfortable teaching, which is something I want to keep building over time.
I think the boundary is really about respect. I respect my family and friends, but I also need them to respect that this is not just a hobby. It is my business, my time, my skill, and my livelihood.
This is a great reminder that building a successful business isn’t just about growth it’s also about creating a life you actually enjoy living. I really like the point about setting boundaries and creating systems instead of always being available. As small business owners, it’s easy to get caught up in wanting to help everyone and saying yes to every opportunity, but protecting your time is important too. I also agree that there’s a big difference between helping people and undervaluing your work. Giving back to your community is powerful, but you have to make sure your business stays healthy so you can continue helping others in the long run. At the end of the day, the goal is to build a business that supports your life, your family, and your purpose not one that takes away from them.
