I'll be honest-- I didn't even know what systems were when I met my husband, but I had my business and I was losing my mind. Dinner dates would turn into venting sessions and they were apart of our regular day-to-day. While he hasn't worked IN the business, his marketing firm has helped me work ON the business. There have been times where he's provided unsolicited advice, and conversations needed to be had regarding boundaries and separating the business from our personal lives (as best we can).
While this response isn't specific to your situation, the theme is similar- difficult conversations must be had as though they're our employees even when they're not. (As a former therapist, I highly recommend "I" statements so the key points fall back on you and your experience). Good luck!
