If you have to give up more than you want, are they the right person to hire?
I have a guy that I worked with in the past that I always told, when I start my own company I want him to work for me. He was smart, articulate, hard working and a quick learner. Now that my company is a reality, I reached out and he wants way more than I am willing to pay, and he is making it really hard to convince him to come over. I always thought he would be a great addition to my team and I always had a position in mind for him, something he could grow into. Where he is now is a dead end but with me, the sky is the limit.
I wonder, is he the same person I knew when I was managing a team for another company? Should I be offering him more? Are his requests unreasonable or are my offerings unreasonable? Is he even the right person if he is going to ask for more than he knows I am willing to offer.